Well as some of you may know I broke up with my bf of 1 year last week because of lifestyle differences. I wanted to get sober, he didn’t. I talked to him today because I was missing him and he told me in no uncertain terms while harm reduction was a goal, sobriety definitely was not. He took offense at my calling marijuana a drug . He asked me if I still wanted to take a trip next month and I told him I didn’t have an answer for him.