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Originally Posted by BigBubba
There we go, dating professor joined the chat. If you think the rules haven't changed, you're living in the past. Today attractive woman can find guy to talk to while eating breakfast (tinder). And yeah, tinder - the app where you basically swipe right if you like someone or swipe left when you don't. Like = looks only. I bet it wasn't there when you were my age, or am I wrong? Because I'm here, right now, and I can feel the reality on my skin. You're married and you're out the game. You said you're married longer than I'm alive so you've been out the game for a loooooong time.
You can label me as stupid as you pretty much did because of my age or you can think about what I'm saying to you. Imagine a random pretty girl - Sarah.
There is a difference between Sarah who meets 2-3 potential partners a year and Sarah who gets 30 guys ready to talk to her in 10 minutes on tinder.
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Well the thing is that the title of the thread is asking if looks are more important than personality in RELATIOSHIPS. That’s the title of the thread.
It wasn’t asking if it’s more important in getting chats with random guys on a hook up site
Good looking girls will get more hits and chats on a hook up site like tinder, it’s true, or on any dating site.
But it will not be more important than personality in a relationship because guys will drop her like a hot potato if she has a nasty personality and her life is a mess (if they consider relationship). Her looks will not be more important in a relationship
Plenty of average or below average looking people enjoy happy relationships. If looks were more important, only good looking people will be in relationships and it’s simply not true.
I think that’s where disconnect is. People talking about relationships because that’s what thread was about but you talk about good looking people being noticed more. And specifically use example of a hook up site. It’s not the same topic. It’s a valid topic, just a different one.