No. I'm saying I think an attitude like yours where the belief system only includes one aspect of the whole is doomed to fail. The physical changes you have made are most definitely admirable. Perhaps you would benefit from doing the same with your overall outlook?

There are places/communities that are very accepting. They remain outside of society for that reason. Society is not accepting of anyone they don't understand. They are rejected as pariahs. But in my community, we have all kinds and it's a place where people don't care about looks and a quirky personality is a plus. It's the only place I feel safe besides home.