What a pain. Sorry to hear that. I don’t know if it always helps to tell them how you feel. It depends

I have somebody very obnoxious, manipulative, bossy and ridiculous at work. She isn’t the boss whatsoever, she however acts like one. And she is a new employee. Several of us just cannot stand her. Now I myself am trying to find ways to not agonize about it. Last time I had somebody obnoxious at work I didn’t even realize I agonized about him daily. I only calmed down when I just stopped worrying about him not doing his work but started just focusing on myself. Well he got fired so that didn’t last.

With this new person, our boss actually hinted about transferring her elsewhere, which several of us would consider a blessing. The only way I find I could deal with these people is to avoid them like a plague and focus on my own life and work.

It’s tempting to leave jobs when you run into idiots but idiots are everywhere lol And they usually don’t last in one place because people figure them out. Hopefully this loser at your work will be gone too. The obnoxious woman we have hops jobs every few years, we now see why. Our hope is that she won’t last. But sadly manipulative people weasel their ways in and out successfully.