How old are you? Do you have a job? Perhaps they are worried because they are not sure if you can handle that by yourself. i think it may be a good idea to reassure them by getting a job if don't already have one and telling them that you're serious about this if you truly are serious. Of course i am not sure what the reason may be, perhaps it'd be best to ask them some specific question if you want to know? So Sorry this is happening. i Hope everything will improve. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @BoomerMudcat, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!