Thanks Molinit. I was thinking the very same thing. I don't think my husband or his brother want to accept that. They are just assuming she is lonely and would act better if she had other people around her. Sadly, memory care is very expensive in addition to the regular expenses that go along with assisted living. Ugh. What a horrible situation. I would not be surprised if the facility tries to move her into memory care even if my husband and his brother are in denial. But when I looked up the symptoms of dementia after reading your reply, my MIL has practically every single one of them.