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Jun 24, 2021, 08:19 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,082
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I told him I could be blacked out drunk and stoned out of my mind and I could never forget him.
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This is exactly why people distance from you. You don't get it that this Lois totally inappropriate behavior in the work place. Since you REFUSE to listen to them tell you, stop the behavior you are doing, then they tell you crap like this cause you don't listen anyway. You just have NO CLUE what appropriate work place boundaries are & what is worse is that you really don't seem to care to learn. That is what makes people you work with treat you bad because they want you to stay away from them when you start acting like that. Avoiding you keeps you from attaching to them like like you do the others you have serious problems with.
People can share & talk about personal things in the work place without being like a leach stuck on that person. You on the other hand, when someone is nice to you, you leach onto them & get your feelings hurt when people don't want someone to do that to them. You wonder why when other people see that behavior in you, they avoid you or make fun of you? They do it to keep you at a distance so they won't be bothered by your behavior on a personal level.
You don't get social behavior differences either because you are incapable because of your disability or you just don't want to. Guessing it is your disability because you keep doing the same thing over & over expecting different results from the people & never learn that it is your own behavior causing your problems
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