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Jun 24, 2021, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I’m just saying from personal experience: ever since I transitioned from working retail to working fast food, I never once got in trouble for making inappropriate comments such as the one that manager made. Hell I said worse and people continued to associate with me. And accept me. So that’s where I got my conclusion from another fast food and other jobs. Different cultures entirely.
Some of you may recall I worked at Ross during the holiday season and my position was seasonal. They didn’t hire me on for permanent position under the pretense that my position ended. However, it’s really because I was allegedly on Snapchat with a coworker during down times late at night.
That was absent ANY inappropriate comments.
Also, I’m surprised I lasts at Sam’s club for 5.5 years. True I did my best to not make any inappropriate comments (in order to match my environment) but the anxiety of always trying not to fvck up was too much. I never ultimately got in trouble for that though. I got in trouble there for the exact same thing I got in trouble everywhere I worked:
“Being a leach” on the manager who was real nice to me.
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Well, then you could infer that the way to not get fired is to maintain common boundaries with everyone at work regardless of who they are, since the reason you are consistently getting in trouble is because you are breaking people's personal boundaries in a way that becomes harassment.
Ruby, let's back up. What are your goals with being employed? What do you want for yourself?
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