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Jun 24, 2021, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Alive99
OK, I'm talking about the GM she started the thread about. She may have more than one issues around this, but this is definitely one of them.
She did say it exactly.
The context does not matter, because such wording is always inappropriate between male manager and female employee.
I can't really repeat that again. If you don't agree, not my problem.
OP can evaluate my comment for herself.
I suggest she also discuss it in therapy later when she gets access to help.
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Cuz you know, it’s what he used to call me.
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What is it? Buttercup? I don't know the context of this remark. Every day? He said it once? He was trying to put her at ease with a compliment?
The problem is Ruby cannot tell the difference. I have had playful nicknames with coworkers that I have good relationships with. He may have done this before he realized Ruby's infatuation tendencies. The point is: we do not know. This is why it's essential for Ruby to maintain that list of boundaries because she cannot tell the difference between a friendly compliment and a romantic advance.
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