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Jun 24, 2021, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I don’t think he crossed boundaries. He called me those things only when I had something to say to him. As in, “what’s up buttercup?” And it was more than once in the 3 years we worked together. Nothing wrong with that. Not just fast food but any work setting,
I’m most concerned about the fact that he seemed to think I crossed boundaries and acted accordingly. I know I might have but it’s still upsetting to be pushed aside.
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I understand you feel abandoned. And it's okay to have your feelings, there is nothing wrong with that.
What you do need to do now is leave him alone though and behave yourself at work. You don't want to end up in the same situation as at Arby's, and you know now that he doesn't want contact with you, so best to leave it alone, and simply be a professional at work and maintain your boundaries and respect other people's.
Were you able to find a NAMI meeting near you and put it on your calendar?
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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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