Hmm, we- the soccer player and I, did not talk for a few days and he just texted me wanting to see me again. I said ok. So, we will meet again! Someone told me to tell him that I don't want to listen about his ex-wife. Hmmm, I will just nod and listen but not say anything. I am not sure he will bring it up again anyways. It is nice he wants to see me again! I am in a way happy. I'm not perfect either but hope we get along and do well. Thank you all for your comments!!