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Originally Posted by eskielover
I have learned it FEELS even better to stand up for yourself. I had an old acquaintance from high school/college reconnect with me a few years ago. He was annoying even just wanting to be a friend & it was unbalancing my peaceful life even just over social media. I unfriended him to start with but it took blocking him to finally stop it & it felt so good to know I was in control of my life & my peace. Felt so much better than trying to work on a relationship that constantly kept my peaceful life unbalanced
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I know what you mean when you say it feels good to be in control again. It's been a month since I stopped any connection with the guy I was obsessed with. I probably said this in other threads again and again. Only after 3 years, I was finally able to let go.
Last night, I was feeling awful and I had the habit of texting him when I felt that way before. I just remembered it since it was a habit, but I always keep in mind that my life is much better without him. I was crying and dealing with my situation by myself, but it was better than the pain I would feel when I imagine him doing something to hurt my feelings again. Never again.