So the answer to the other question on my post, he’s not cold at all towards anyone else, at work or outside of work. I’m inferring from the replies y’all posted

I don’t understand human behavior at all. Just when I thought I understand something, another thing comes up to contradict it. All I really understand right now is the black and whitr concept of nice and rude, good and bad.

The concept of distance and boundaries are too complex and nuanced to understand.

Luckily animals don’t understand anything beyond good and bad either. So when I be really nice and kind to animals they appreciate it