This topic always ends up in a big argument. We had so many threads and posts on the topic of “if looks are more important” and it always gets very heated. I think it’s fair to acknowledge that for some people looks are most important and for some intelligence more important and for some kindness and for some combination of things and some marry for money. It’s highly individual and subjective. No cookie cutter or rule book, whatever people want to do in choosing a partner is up to them