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Jun 27, 2021, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
She’s a lot nicer to my non traumatized coworkers though. She treats me disdainfully for the past 6 weeks and I’m the traumatized one. That’s what I mean by her looking down on me and her depravity.
At the very beginning
Her: sauces will be done before you leave
Me: ok don’t forget to do it
Her: I need you to do it
Me: I can’t bc GM putting me through hell
Her: fill the sauces or im writing you up
Ok at this point, early on in our dialogue, why did she use that tone with me and threaten me with a write up? Why didn’t she wait till my 3rd, 4th, or maybe 5th refusal to do the job?
I’m not asking for sympathy. I’m asking for respect and not be treated disdainfully by anyone. I’m asking to be treated like a human. That’s how she treats everyone else and that’s how she used to treat me
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Your first reply to her is unacceptable. She gave you a task to do, and you talked back and put it back on her. Then you gave her an excuse blaming it on someone who isn't there. If you cannot work because of emotional turmoil then you should not be at work at all. Explain to me why you cannot physically fill the sauces up because of the GM not saying hello to you? If your moods rely so heavily on other people simply saying hello to you, and you physically cannot work because of that, then you need to look for additional support because you should not be working at all.
I don't think this had anything to do with the GM. I think you didn't want to listen to the trainee manager because of all the backstory you gave and that you don't like her. So you gave her an attitude and blamed it on the old GM.
Does it bother you at all that you put HIS career in jeopardy when you keep acting like he actually did something to you and telling other people he "put you through hell' when all he did was not talk to you and you have no relationship with him to entitle you to any of his attention? You could get this man in trouble and cause him a lot of harm with these accusations. He did not put you through hell. Your infatuation is putting you through hell.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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