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Old Jun 28, 2021, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
I’m simply trying to understand human behavior at this point. Cuz I feel better about things that happened once I understand stand them.

Teens get fired for bad behavior all the time. My question is would idolizing a supervisor be considered bad behavior in a teenager?

I was venting before but now I find myself lacking understanding anything about people. It’s as if I’m from Mars and have to learn another earthlings from scratch
That is because the understanding you have IS WRONG & the only reason you grasp onto those thoughts is to make you feel better about your own inappropriate behaviors.

What you describe about being from Mars & trying to understand is very much what some people with ASD experience. You are not alone but you are looking in the wrong places to try to find out why you do things. You need someone to do an actual diagnosis at this point in your life to find out exactly what they are treating & how to really help you. Right now you are just floundering & you can't self treat or diagnose when you don't even know what & why you are behaving inappropriately & just keep doing it because you are only looking for reasons that validate your bad behavior
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