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Originally Posted by blubbbrabbel
Dont get me wrong. I understand that this is upsetting and that he feels uncomfortable with this. And I appologized. I am sorry that I was unable to think of any other solution only a few days after her death... But blaming me this way for trying to respect a wish, however unreasonable, feels unfair somehow. So I told him. I said he was being egoistic about this.
He told me that I have been egoistic for a whole week after her death... I dont know. I felt so close those first days...
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You had nothing to apologize for. You respected your mother’s wishes. He is your bf and does not belong being mentioned. He is totally out of line.
It looks like he has a habit of blaming you for many things, putting you on the defensive, and making you apologize. These are signs of abuse.