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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
You had nothing to apologize for. You respected your mother’s wishes. He is your bf and does not belong being mentioned. He is totally out of line.
It looks like he has a habit of blaming you for many things, putting you on the defensive, and making you apologize. These are signs of abuse.
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It feels like he is blaming me a lot. At times I am just unsure. Maybe I am expecting him to act this way and it is not this black and white? Maybe my issues are part of this, too?
I think, he was hurt, because we helped my grandparents to make an anouncement. Because they wanted to sign an anouncement about their daugther's death. And they included their son, my cousin and her boyfriend. And to my bf it is as though we "forgot" him. Or that I failed to stand up for him.
I just feel stupid. I was about to move in. Now that he is sleeping on the sofa, I just want to go home, or anywhere where one is allowed to morne and be off track only one week after your mother died...
I think, I will ask him, to tell me, when he feels ready to have me back... I dont want to be the reason he has to sleep on the couch.
I just feel this numbness again. As tough it did not really matter either way.