It usually begins when two people, whether online or IRL, make a connection from across the room, real or chat. At this point, they feel compelled to get to know each other better. If they feel comfortable, they start working toward a relationship, and in some cases it works out.
So I would have to say that neither looks or personality are more important. It's chemistry.
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