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Originally Posted by divine1966
Omg. After my mother’s unexpected death I was a mess for a long time. This boyfriend of yours is not a good person. I am sorry he is a jerk. You’ve been egotistical a WEEK after your mother’s death???? What did he expect?
Why are you in his house while he sleeps on a couch? Are you homeless? If not, go home. Let him sleep wherever he wants
Why are you apologizing for things HE does wrong??? I am livid on your behalf. This dude got to go. Bye.
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So sorry to hear, you lost your mother!!
I am trying to work again from this week, because I know we have deadlines... but it feels too soon. I want to be there for my father, too. He was planning to care for her and leave work...
Well, I said to my bf he was egoistic first. So he said I had been egoistic. But he instisted that this is not a bad thing. That I was the one saying it was bad.
Well, I am pmulsive and used to get out in fights... I try to change this. Abd since we were about to move together I wanted to stay tge night. But I went to bed first and honestly did not expect that he would sleep on the sofa....
He was so upset when I decided to stay another night at my dad last saturday. And he brouht it up again. Because he was alone... and this too, to me was something I just imagine to blame a partner for, who just lost a parent. It is not about maybe feeling alone and disappointed and bringing it up. But about saying there is something wrong with this.