Does it upset you when someone offers to help you and then not deliver? I feel like that's happened to me a lot. And it's upsetting. I'd rather people not offer anything if I were suffering badly than to offer and not deliver. I would understand being with someone who's loaded with money; and if I needed help then that person never makes an offer. I prefer not to ask for help from anyone and I rarely do. Also I get upset when someone says that they will help but delays for some lame reason. It's not just about money it's other things as well such as; housework, going out somewhere, stuff they have I need that they could give me, etc.