I am autistic and even someone brushing up against me by accident makes me feel weird. I don’t like handshakes or hugs. My brother in law is always giving hugs and I wish he didn’t. My sister tried giving me a hug to other day but she said she was dirty from mowing the lawn so I got out of that one. I don’t get why they need to hug each time they see us since they live 15 minutes away and are always over.