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Jun 29, 2021, 01:24 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
Everyone is definitely going through something. My grief and isolation is only one of the many problems people can possibly have in life. That said, the single greatest tragedy in life is to have literally having nobody caring about you.
Got chronic or acute illness? People have your back. Been in an accident? Death or illness of a loved one? Financial problems or living in poverty? Again, people have your back. That’s part of where so called human resilience comes from.
Abandoned constantly? Friendless and alone? Sorry bud, you’re on your own completely.
And should you also suffer the above tragedies, you’re screwed.
Besides, people are wired to connect and relate. It’s one of our innate drives.
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I'll say it again: you have no clue what anyone is going through or what support they have or what they need.
This judgmental attitude that your pain is worse than all others is part of why people push you away. You seem to think your better than everyone else and that your suffering is more important than theirs. People don't appreciate that perspective. It's invalidating and hurtful.
Once again, you need to focus on yourself and not worry about other people's stuff.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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