I have traits of BPD but I really only show them through emails or other online platforms. Or I keep them to myself and I don’t tell anyone. Like when I take too much meds on purpose. I can get pretty angry but not in person. Irl I’m clearly autistic to the point I think other people notice without me telling. But yeah I display some traits for sure of BPD. But I didn’t know you could have both of them.