I'm glad you were able to walk away from her. My ex-boyfriend was a bit like that. I felt that I was constantly being doubted and mistrusted even though I wasn't doing anything. When I want to go back to my place early, he would ask if I was dating anyone else. At first, it sounded like a harmless joke, but he kept on asking it whenever I left. He would even book a ride for me from his phone to make sure I was going home. After that, he'd ask me to send a picture of myself in my home when I arrived. Then once, he opened the topic of happiness. "I want to make you happy. How are you gonna make me happy? You should think about that."
The last straw was when he forced himself on me because he wanted to have kids right away. I already told him that I was not ready yet, but one day he just did it and told me he hoped I'd get pregnant. I cried and he said I was overreacting because we would have children anyway, so the only reason I'd be worried was that I was seeing another man. I didn't know what to do as I was embarrassed to tell anyone about it.
He was emotionally abusive as well when it comes to my mood swings. I posted in another thread, and the issue was that he got irritated and blamed me when I was depressed. He said I made myself miserable because I wanted to. I questioned myself why I was in this kind of relationship and decided to end it as soon as I found out I was not pregnant.
Welcome to the forums, by the way. @
Vindicated17