Thank you so much for responding to my thread! She has actually done therapy before I met her for an abusive ex bf. Then while with her she did therapy regarding her sister for whom she decided to cut ties with. Then at the end of our relationship she just started therapy regarding her Dad that passed several years ago and said oh she finally figured out why she's so insecure....this was the THIRD issue to have therapy for which was my final straw...what's next..therapy for her mom? therapy for Santa Claus? The Tooth Fairy? Enough was enough and nothing ever changed in the end so I knew I had to walk away. We have also done couples counselling before a couple of times to which things would start to get better then there would be an issue and she'd take two steps back.