forgive me if I am wrong here, but you stated you did tell him to work on his business stuff. if I had been in your situation when he came in asking if there was anything you wanted him to do or needed him to do you should have said something to him then. please don't try to do it all on your own when he is asking if you need/want his help. you are having a difficult pregnancy and hon take the help when it is offered. I think at this point I would let this go but next time he offers take him up on it. good luck hon with the rest of the pregnancy and your marriage. I know how bad it hurts at times. (((hugs)))