Thanks bebop. And I know you're right, because of this pregnancy I should just tell him what to do to help me, but over the years I have told him exactly what I need, and he either forgets to do it, or I already have it done by the time he gets to it (he's a great procrastinator). It gets to the point where I feel like a nagging witch, and to be honest, I would rather just do it on my own than direct him like a 3 year old all day. And at this point, should I really need to tell him?I would think after I caught him starting to cheat on me again ten days ago that he would want to be waiting on me hand and foot!

(Sorry, I guess that's the anger showing it's ugly face today)