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Jul 02, 2021, 01:31 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,094
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I went in today ready to turn things around only to be SURROUNDED by coworkers who HATE me. Cuz hate more closely describe their attitude towards me than simply dislike.
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You don't seem to understand that these people don't hate you, they just dislike your behaviors & don't want to have any association with you. That doesn't mean they hate you.
Seriously, I can't stand my EX-husbands behavior or thinking but I don't hate him. I left him because of his bad choices & the behaviors it created but I don't hate him. I would never associate with him again but avoidance means self-care on my part & had nothing to do with hating vs liking a person.
How your GM feels about the situation is his business not yours. You are looking at him from your own dysfunctional, broken view point. He most likely wouldn't even think or care about the situation any more. He KNOWS you are the one who caused the problem, why should he feel bad at all?
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