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Old Jul 02, 2021, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
I just didn’t know how long I must behave myself before my coworkers come back around. All I knew is that being intensely disliked is unbearable. That doesn’t make it ok to snap, but I used up all my reserves trying to cope generally for several weeks.

I know he cared about me when he was here though. He even said it from time to time without being asked. But it doesn’t matter now. I’m just glad he wouldn’t feel bad that’s all.

I expect to be fired. That’s fine. But I just applied 3 different companies yesterday and haven’t heard back yet
Ruby, do you understand how constantly complaining to team members about the GM ignoring you has now caused them to dislike you? Not only that, but your outbursts, your rudeness and your snappiness has also caused them to dislike you?

Do you understand that your obsession with your GM not wanting to talk to anymore has caused you to completely unravel at work, have these outbursts and be rude to everyone with whom you work?

Do you see how completely destructive your obsessions have become? Your obsession with someone you look up to got you fired from Arby's, caused you to act out and emotionally melt down at Sam's, and now you're likely getting from from McDonald's for the same exact reasons?

This has got to stop or you will never be able to function in ANY work environment.
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