wow. i understand everything you said. it is true sometimes the anger you are feeling does come from the past when you were hurt by those who hurt you and at the time you could not explain to them why you feel this way until now when you are much older.

That is like me. I feel so much anger to my mom and sister and my family because of what happen to me and at the time i could not tell them why because i could not understand it my self. But now I understand it and I am letting them know just how hurt I was and how angry I was. But to them I have the problem and I am always out to start something and I am always thinking this way... That is all bull because I need to tell them just how I feel about what happen.

And it is true you should let those know who hurt you just how you feel and just how hurt you are. I was told the same thing.