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Old Jul 03, 2021, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
I almost regret calling out a coworker for being so mean spirited yesterday. Cuz there are more epic ways to get fired. I shoulda left a sympathy card saying sorry for your loss. Your loss, of course, being me. I’m a tell them to take their time to grieve while I walk out that door for the last time.

I can get more epic than a sarcastic sympathy card, but I’d get in too much trouble. So I won’t do those.
You "almost" regret your racist remark? I thought you said you care how you make people feel?

Ruby, I hate to break it to you. You were not a loss to them. You were a liability. You need to understand this. You caused problems and created very real unsafe conditions for other employees. Losing you benefits them. You need to understand that because you need to understand the reality of what's happening here. You need to face your bad behavior, you need to face that you are hurting others, and you need to face that you need help before you go back to work.

If this continues, you go to another job and do it again, it will likely escalate and you will end up in legal trouble. It will also make it impossible to get a job again because you will be seen as a liability and employers don't want to risk hiring you.

Stop and get help before you go looking for another job so that you can actually be successful in the next job.
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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien

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