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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I don't see why you don't spend some quality time alone without dating? It's been one man after another and each time it ends, you say you want to spend more time alone taking care of yourself and your own life. The last guy wore you out. Then you meet someone else and all that goes out the window. Why are you afraid to be alone? And sorry if I'm being too forward. I just wonder why it is you cannot be alone, when you say you want to be and to spend time working on your own life.
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Yes, I have been alone off and on. I am alone still although seeing this man. He is not my boyfriend but just a lover. I don't see any harm with being with a man for sex. We see each other for dinner and sex but that is about it. Is there something wrong with this?
I'm not in a relationship with him so he is not overwhelming. But, he is demanding that I have sex with him in ways I don't prefer. So, I will try to talk with him about it.
I prefer my interaction with him since we don't interfere with each other's lives. I just need to talk to him about his desires.
He is not too much trouble so far.
Also, I'm doing quite well. So, if I work on myself I will continue doing what I am doing whether or not I'm with someone.