Welcome to the forums! I think that my SO may have very high functioning ASD. We do have a good relationship but it's hard to work on some issues... he does not want to talk to a ''professional'' (even for one session) and in this forest where we live I do not blame him one bit. I have seen therapists who were not at all helpful to me. I hear that in most places therapists are much more helpful. I do not have any advice right now but just wanted to welcome you.