Yes, I have been alone off and on. I am alone still although seeing this man. He is not my boyfriend but just a lover. I don't see any harm with being with a man for sex. We see each other for dinner and sex but that is about it. Is there something wrong with this?

I'm not in a relationship with him so he is not overwhelming. But, he is demanding that I have sex with him in ways I don't prefer. So, I will try to talk with him about it.

I prefer my interaction with him since we don't interfere with each other's lives. I just need to talk to him about his desires.

He is not too much trouble so far.

Also, I'm doing quite well. So, if I work on myself I will continue doing what I am doing whether or not I'm with someone.