I mean I prolly start off behaving normally when I first start at a company. I guess it’s normal to feel appreciative when someone treats me kindly. That’s why I wasn’t the only one who said GM is nice and good. So many people did. And the people who said nice things to him…well you know. I meant to behave exactly like these people. I didn’t get the same good results though, as evident from after he transferred.

Even while he was here, there were 2 different week-long instances that he ignored me. One was early fall of 2019. The other one happened 11 months later. Idk it spontaneously happened. Good thing both instances lasted only a week. Any longer and I woulda gone crazy.

Besides those 2 instances, you may recall he said he’s going on vacation and won’t think about me once. That’s in response to me saying how hard it would be that he isn’t here. That’s rude of him to respond to someone who just expressed deeply missing him while he’s gone. But he might be just terribly looking forward to his vacation I think.

I never told of this anecdote before. Three weeks before he transferred, he got the news from his superiors that they’re transferring him to another store. The GM girl who’s replacing him was present at the store to check things out. She’s 25 and I worked with her at this store before she became GM. When I started, she was 22 year old hourly manager (right below GM) and when she first got promoted, she briefly left for a store in OK.

So I got curious about her presence back at this store and asked why she’s here. He said she’s gonna replace him after he transfers to (another store). I said I don’t want him to go and I’ll really miss him.

Him: get over it

I figured he prolly didn’t know how to deal with negative feelings about leaving so he didn’t know how to respond. I reasoned like that even after my coworkers also told him (the same day) they’ll miss him and he responded he’ll also miss them. However, for the rest of his time here, he continued to be nice and kind to me again so I was emotionally intact.

Was that a red flag when he told me to get over it?