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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I see the meanings of what you described differently. For example; you said the girl told the GM “Take me with you!”. You thought she meant she wanted to be with him because she liked him so much. I see it as she wanted to get out of being there at work. My interpretation of that expression the way she did it meant what i think, but you interpreted it differently.
Anyway, I don’t have much more to say to try to be helpful. We can’t possibly convey to you here all the infinite communication interpretations in every situation. But, I bet there are books and professionals who can.
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Yeah, that's a good point, OP really needs to learn to open her mind to how there can be 1000 ways to interpret these situations without enough information, especially without enough focus on the emotional information from people (and of her own). It just requires a whole different kind of thinking than the logic she's been trying to use to try and figure out all of it.
And I like your example, we could be giving her more of these examples of light stuff maybe for her to see that this is a LOT different from her own thoughts and her own overwhelming emotions (whatever those emotions may be labelled as, which I think would help a lot lol if she could label them correctly).
She could also read up on the concept of projection. Projecting her own - intense - emotions onto others constantly. Contributes a lot to the whole mess and contradictions she's experiencing strongly.