I wasn't sure where to post this. I was thinking of posting it somewhere else, but I've decided to post it here. I might post it, or similar, there too.

1. Forgiveness. In general, I try to be forgiving. I forgive most people. Some transgressions.... mostly irl, are very hard for me to forgive. How about you?

2. Another forum (not msf) is making me ''ill'' and there isn't a simple or black and white answer to this.

3. It still sometimes bothers me how I was ''ghosted'' somewhere else. By someone who asked me very personal questions in private. And just stopped communicating with no explanation after I had said a lot to her And continued on as if nothing had happened. And ''reported'' me. She did exactly the same thing that I received a nasty message about I don't think I've posted about that in this particular forum before. This person is not and never has been on msf.

4. I do not like being labelled as ''needy'' or ''weak'' and frankly I find both those labels offensive and not even accurate. How can such labelling be in any way supportive. It cannot... imho. I am not ''weak''... whatever that even means. A while ago, about 10 years ago in fact (on a Christian forum) the forum leader ''justified'' someone else's lack of respect to me with ''you are weak''.... Wow just wow. I was very new there, I had only known any of them (even somewhat) for a couple of months. NOBODY has the right to define me. I define myself.

That no longer stings, I think it's rather pathetic for a so called leader to be so... lacking in any form of social skills amongst many other things. I am still in some contact with that ''leader'' elsewhere. Fortunately she has not disrespected me again, or I would have either told her what I felt in no uncertain terms, or cut off contact.

I do not usually like cutting off contact with anyone. I believe that most people are capable of positive growth and change. (the other forum leader there simply deleted me somewhere else when I was unable to play the ''games'' due to a severe physical health issue

idk... I do not understand some people sometimes Both those people seemed rather.... ''selfish''...... something I have been accused of by both of my Parental Units. I think they were WRONG. They were ''selfish''.... for decades And also exceedingly emotionally rigid. And more. Also, they were ALWAYS ''right''

Any supportive replies are welcome.