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Have Hope · Jul 05, 2021 at 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by bpforever1

Possible trigger:

The soccer player wants **** sex. I am trying to understand his need but wonder if I should stop seeing him. I've never done **** and told him so. I have been reading about it and understand I need lots of lube. But, I am not that interested in doing it in the rear.

I like him a lot but don't know if I should accommodate his desire when I'm not really into it.

It might feel good if done right though so I don't know if I should take a chance.

So, I should tell him that I'm not too interested in doing it and have but he really wants to do it.

Well, I will let him go if he keeps insisting on doing it.

But, we should talk and see what he says.

I agree with Big Bubba. You stated you're not into this idea and it does seem you are just accommodating HIS wishes. Why do something you're not into? BTW, it HURTS and is NOT comfortable - for me anyways.