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Old Jul 05, 2021, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
Ok. I meant I have theory of mind. I thought it’s the same thing as knowing ppl’s thoughts and feelings. Not as mindreaders, but you know nonetheless. That’s what the textbooks said anyway.

This isn’t the first time I was misunderstood. Nor will it be the last.

Like I said to a customer “it didn’t take your card.”
Him: why
Me: I don’t know. Check with your card company or your bank
Him: you mean my card was declined?
Me: yes
Him: then tell me that
Me: I did from the very beginning

It wasn’t my fault he wanted to play like that
“It didn’t take your card” could mean many different things. I have vast experience in retail and it’s not how you inform customers that card didn’t go through. And you don’t expect them to know what you mean without clarifications.
Thanks for this!
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