I believe that I'm mostly aware of my bad habits. Not all of course, but I know that my being very upset when someone breaks their promise can be off-putting. I notice these things when I reflect on what went wrong with my previous encounters with people. I used to hold grudges and seek too much attention and validation in those relationships. It's embarrassing when I remember my toxic behaviors in the past, but I've learned to see them as valuable experiences now.
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