Ruby has gotten 530 responses to her post, 531 with mine, reinforcing her obsessive thinking. Now we’re discussing her interpretation of sarcasm. Are we really helping her? My opinion is not giving her so much attention would be more useful. Bpd traits are very hard to overcome, I can’t imagine what the full blown disorder would take to heal from. DBT takes a couple of years to get through and that’s if you participate and do the work. It doesn’t sound like ruby wants to change, or sees that’s she’s the problem. Somebody from this board needs to contact somebody in her real life and let them know what’s going on here. Also with the ASD, I’m not sure what she’ll be able to understand. She sounds like she could be helped by AP medication to stop her delusional thinking.