It’s up to the OP if they find their threads and our responses helpful, some people just need to vent and some need longer to figure out what’s useful. Not up to us. We can post or not post.

Plenty of people post on the same issues for many years with no improvement. Perhaps they post for venting only. It’s up to them. No way this forum is going to look for all these people irl and contact others on their behalf. People would be afraid to post on here if there’s constant danger of being outed