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Jul 06, 2021, 12:12 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,081
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Of course things really devolved when I told her things didn’t work out because I was sober again and I didn’t want to hang out with someone who wasn’t.
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Just wondering if you were at the sober point when the initial red flags occurred? That definitely could have made a huge difference in how you perceived the relationship at that time.
Oh, I was totally sober when I logically thought about marrying my now EX in spite of the HUGE red flags. It took me a lot of effort to go back & remember what in the world I was thinking way back in 1975....but I did it & understand why I made the choice then even though now, hind sight has made me realize those RED FLAGS were real & I should have followed my GUT, not my logic in that case.
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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