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Old Jul 06, 2021, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by seesaw View Post
I admit I've had the same thought, but it's far beyond the purview of this board and of us as members. We can only keep encouraging Ruby to seek out the right resources and support.

If she doesn’t change her thinking, it won’t matter if she changes her behavior as she will just be trying to act right to get a reward. She sounds like she could benefit from both cbt and dbt and perhaps a mood stabilizer . (I know some people are anti-medication.) It also sounds like , and I’m pretty sure she said, she doesn’t have a therapist. That would be a more appropriate person to experience transference with, not your manager at work.