What is everyone's thoughts on the Ultimatum of buying a house together? Now my scenario was dated for about 6 months, then introduced each other to each others kids, then I was being pushed for in about a year later for me to sell my house, have her sell her house and then we buy a house all together to live in. I would be hit with being made to feel guilty for being happy the way things were. I mean I was happy to have my own house, space and privacy for my kids and myself and she had the same. To me it was the best of all worlds and no need to rush into anything, and if anything just live this way for many more years until maybe the kids were all teenagers. I was looked down upon for this happiness being told that oh I am just happy the way things are and that I'll never want to buy a home together. It really hurt me because if you love someone and enjoy the life together why would you want to just end things because you cannot obtain a home (an object) together on a set timeline? We still pretty much saw each other every day. Thoughts?