When pushed by toxic situations I can still react in a pissed off way but only some people push me to that point now that my glass is no longer full from what I dealt with in my marriage. However I find that the residual legal issues from that 33 year marriage 3 years after my divorce is making me less tolerant of stupid crap certain people cause in my life. I have noticed that I respond to their poor choices in a much more negative response the more they push my tolerance level after telling them over & over again. I actually hope that my responses to their behaviors make them miserable enough they will move back into the barn apartment instead of getting in the way of my taking care of my horse.