Thread: Forgiveness
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Old Jul 07, 2021, 03:04 AM
RoxanneToto RoxanneToto is offline
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I also don’t believe you have to forgive to find peace - for me, this often seems to translate into soothing other people’s discomfort over your reaction to being hurt. That’s not helpful to the injured person.
I only forgive if the person actually apologises, is genuinely remorseful and tries to learn to be better. Outside of that, I do what I can to look after my own mental health.
Thanks for this!
Rose76