I see you said that friendships are more complicated for you so you would like to talk with a therapist. Its interesting because for me the relationship with a therapist is more complicated. So much so that I don’t want to do therapy anymore or perhaps my luck with therapists has for the most part been bad.

I understand the desire or wish to be in someone’s life. It seems to happen often for those in therapy. I would like to share the other side of the equation. I had a therapist that was also in my life in a personal role and we did a lot of things together outside of therapy. I was a part of her life and at the time it was the greatest thing ever. But as time went on and she started to fade more I realized that she was not the same in a personal role as she was as a therapist and she lost her objectivity and things were not as great as I had imagined they were. So even if you wish to be a part of someone’s life, it may not be as great as you hope or imagine it would be.