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Old Jul 07, 2021, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
I want to transfer so I behave myself. It’s just unsustainable long term if I’m not even welcome at the store I work at. Once I transfer, I’ll find it easier to behave because people there don’t yet know me so they won’t start off rude to me. It’s a badly needed fresh start
Transferring would not be good, you only avoid the consequences of your behavior that way. What you need is to accept that this situation has been created by you. To change the uncomfortable position you find yourself in you need to buckle down and behave to earn back some respect. Not everyone will forgive you but if you behave yourself you will earn back some respect and have respect for yourself for having stuck out the uncomfortable time.
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